How do we Create a Meaningful Life?

๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ณ๐˜‚๐—น ๐—น๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฎ๐˜€๐˜€๐—ฒ๐˜€๐˜€๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€, ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€, ๐˜๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต๐˜๐˜€, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ฝ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€.

While philosophers have questioned the meaning of life for thousands of years, researchers in positive psychology have tried to define the human capacity to think, perceive, and evaluate what is meaningful.

According to research by Martela & Steger (2016), while there may be some overlap, the meaning of life has three facets: ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ฑ๐˜ถ๐˜ณ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ด๐˜ฆ, ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ฏ๐˜ช๐˜ง๐˜ช๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ค๐˜ฆ. Each facet taps into a distinct human experience.

๐—–๐—ผ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ is the cognitive component โ€“ how we make sense of what happens to us, attempting to find patterns or comprehension, and establish predictability and associations that allow us to create connection.

๐—ช๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐˜† ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—น๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐˜€, ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ƒ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜, ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ป๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ถ๐˜.

๐—ฃ๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ฒ refers specifically to the having direction and future-oriented goals that we choose for ourselves to manage behaviors, determine strengths, and incorporate them into our awareness. Purpose is a motivating aspect for pursuing our goals despite the effort or โ€œcostsโ€ associated with them.

๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ป๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ is creating a life worth living and inherent value.ย  Our worth, self-esteem, and mattering are personal evaluations that oneโ€™s life is worthwhile. Each personโ€™s values, goals, and desired outcomes are personally driven.ย 

Culturally, some refer to this as ๐˜ช๐˜ฌ๐˜ช๐˜จ๐˜ข๐˜ช; it is a dimension of what makes our lives worth living. Our choices and behaviors matter because they represent who we are, who we want to be, and how we personally fulfill them.

Our purpose may change many times throughout our lives based on our experiences, moods, or lessons learned.ย  We seek to be valued, appreciated, unique, and a sense of belonging. This motivation drives us to seek the good that we can do in our work, our actions, and our legacies.ย  It is our individual distinction and evaluation of positive standards for personal and professional growth.

What gives your life meaning or what legacy would you wish to create?

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